Home is as much a place as it is a feeling. If you are working with a designer, they should ensure the space feels like home to everyone who lives there. This can be a tricky situation when faced with dramatically different aesthetic preferences. But rest assured, it’s possible to find your common ground.
A marriage of styles
They say opposites attract, but what do you do when your desired decor style is clean and contemporary, while your partner has more traditional tastes? One solution is to mix and match your way to a cohesive and balanced interior. Try to integrate elements that are characteristic of each unique design style to give it a voice in the broader space. For example, try pairing a sleek, modern sofa with a pair of antique armchairs. Juxtaposing these contrasting styles can be quite beautiful, and actually enhances the unique characteristics of each style. To create continuity within the space, choose a consistent colour palette and consider a neutral backdrop.
Textures and materials can also be the common thread to bring harmony to your differences. For example, a rustic wooden table can complement a modern minimalist and a farmhouse aesthetic. Similarly, metals such as brass or copper can add elegance to both traditional and contemporary designs. Mixing textures – such as pairing sleek leather with soft, woven fabrics – can also add depth and interest to your space.
The art of compromise
Believe it or not, less really can be more, and so some thoughtful editing can help simplify the complications that can arise when different styles clash. Be mindful of what you bring into your home and accept the fact that you’ll likely have to compromise and make choices, especially if you’re merging households and consequently, styles. In this case, it’s quite likely that you’ll have two of everything, so be prepared to make some difficult decisions.
Take stock of your inventory and keep the pieces that naturally complement each other in terms of colour, material and scale. A huge dining table will dwarf delicate antique dining chairs.
Be sure to communicate and collaborate. Remember that in love and at home, a little compromise goes a long way.
Put function first
Oftentimes, the functional use of a space will help determine its aesthetic direction, so this is a good place to start. For example, a dining room lends itself to a little drama, allowing you to lean into bolder design choices. Meanwhile, in the bedroom, the goal is often serenity and relaxation, and more neutral selections may resonate. Determine the underlying “vibe” of the room and come to an understanding of how to achieve that, while still reflecting each personality.
Accessorize + harmonize
Accessories are the easiest way to merge contrasting styles. Rugs, pillows and artwork can tie together disparate designs. Consider using globally inspired textiles to bridge traditional and eclectic styles.
A contemporary sculpture can bring a touch of modernity to a vintage setting. The key is to use accessories to subtly echo the themes of both styles, weaving them into a cohesive narrative.
Divide + conquer
Establish focal points in different areas of your home to help each style shine individually while maintaining overall cohesion. For example, designate one area in the home for a classic Victorian reading nook with an ornate armchair and intricate wallpaper. In another corner, create a minimalist workspace with sleek lines and uncluttered surfaces. By giving each style its own designated area to shine, you ensure that they complement rather than compete with each other.
Coming together in a home isn’t without its challenges, but beauty can be born from our differences. Approach the decorating process with an open mind, work together and stay true to yourself to create a space where everyone feels “at home.” The outcome will be as unique as each member of the household.